What to Expect

DRESS, DEPORTMENT AND POSTURES

Your first Latin Mass can be a daunting challenge. Clearly, as Dorothy so eloquently put it, "We're not in Kansas anymore." There is no burlap and when we speak of "felt" it is emotional, not the fabric. Trying to fit in can be scary, internet stories of steely-eyed matrons glaring at any infraction abound.

TALKING - First, you may notice the silence. We talk in the vestibule or on the grounds, in the hall, etc. We try to refrain from talking in the presence of our Lord in the Tabernacle, so that others may pray and to set this sacred space apart in our children's minds. When necessary, we whisper in each other's ears. Some of our members are hearing impaired, so "whisper" is the lowest volume necessary to be heard.

However, the Hall will be abuzz with conversation, running feet and the noise of children. As mother said, "A place for everything and everything in its place."

MUSIC - We lack electric guitars, tamborines, drumsets, lounge piano and swaying vocalists. We have a lovely pipe organ and a choir that contributes beautiful haromonies, invisibly. During their first visit, many people can be seen looking around trying to figure out where the beautiful music is coming from - we use our choir loft.

Everything is done to keep the worshipper's attention focused on the presence of our Lord on His altar.

CLAPPING - In a word, "No." It disrupts people's prayer and turns the holy sacrifice of the Mass into performance art.

DRESS - One may see men without suit coats, women in pants, most women wear veils but some do not. Notice that no one is ostracized. We ask for modesty and that our dress reflect our reverence for our Lord.

PARTICIPATION - Barbara, or a number of others, will be happy to help you with the Missal and readings, answer any questions, etc. Please do not expect to be able to read the entire Mass word-for-word with Father, you will miss the beauty and leave feeling frustrated. Spending time with the Mass readings while still at home is an excellent way to prepare.

Please do not expect to "get it" at your first Mass. I will probably take several Masses before you will feel relaxed and comfortable enough to meditate and let the peace wash over you. Given enough visits, you may very well feel that you have "come home" as many of our people describe the experience.

ATTITUDE - Thankfully, we are not a stern community. We are cranky octagenarians and babbling babies. We are battle-scarred survivors of the Tradition purges and fresh out of RCIA. Our eyes are weary from this vale of tears and freshly optimistic as we discern whether God is calling us to the seminary. We recognize that we are all pilgrims and doing our best. We are God's people trying to help each other home.

COMMUNION ON THE TONGUE - This may take some getting used to. Simply kneel on the cushion at the communion rail, with your hands clasped for prayer. Father stands in front of you, he will be saying the same words you are used to hearing in the Novus Ordo, only in Latin. In the Extraordinary Form you do not need to say "Amen." As Father finishes speaking, simply open your mouth, extend your tongue about an inch and Father will place the Host on your tongue. Father's consecrated hands do not touch your tongue, so it is perfectly sanitary. In 2000 years, there is not a single recorded case of spreading disease from receiving the Host.

POSTURES

In a speech Delivered at the Twelfth Convention of the Fellowship of Catholic Scholars in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, John M. Haas spoke of how certain Catholic practices made such an impression on him when he was still a Protestant. He wrote of how the "adverting to Our Lord" manifest in the Catholic custom of bowing the head in honor of the Real Presence when passing a Catholic church affected him:

And other Catholics could surely add innumerable other [Catholic practices]: some silly, some profound, some a source of comfort, others the source of light-hearted humor. Catholic practices make up the daily life of a Catholic individual and a Catholic society. The morning offering, the invocation of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, the sprinkling of holy water on children at bedtime, the incantation to Saint Anthony ("Tony, Tony, come around; something's lost and can't be found"), the pleas to Saint Jude to prevent a bankruptcy, the novenas for a sick spouse.

All of these many practices fill the lives of the faithful, enrich, comfort and orient them. Often it is difficult to trace their origin. Often the ones which seem most intimate and natural to a people were never even introduced by ecclesiastical authority. They emerged as natural, faith-filled expressions of love or joy or thanksgiving or grief or desperation.

The one characteristic these Catholic practices all seem to share is their ability to turn people away from the mundane, the worldly, the everyday, and direct them toward the sacred, the transcendent, the eternal. One could be traveling on the streetcar in Pittsburgh thinking about how to make new sales contacts or how to position oneself to meet the new girl in the office when suddenly, on the part of a half-dozen people, there was an adverting to another reality, another dimension, not separate from this realm, but permeating it, leavening it, making sense of it. Perhaps the adverting to Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament by those on the street car was only fleeting, with virtually no break in the train of thought regarding increasing sales or meeting the new girl. But the adverting took place; Our Lord was acknowledged; and implicitly at least, the statement was made that increased sales was no end in itself and any future wife would, one would hope, be married in the Lord.

Below are instructions on some of these ways of "adverting to Our Lord" by the use of posture and gesture.

**Bow of the Head**
How:	Simply lower your chin toward your throat and hold a moment
When:	When you pass by a Church, bow your head and make the Sign of the Cross to honor the Real Presence of Christ in the tabernacle. Any time you hear the Name "Jesus" (note that "Christ" is His title, meaning "Anointed One"; there is no need to bow the head at just the mention of the word "Christ"). Men should remove their hats and bow their heads when passing a church or when His Name is spoken; this practice is for both inside and outside of Mass. All Catholics bow their heads at these times (yes, if you're having a casual conversation with someone on the subway and you pass a church or mention His Name, you actually are supposed to bow your head, removing your hat if you are a man). 1 Cross yourself and bow the head when the priest and the Crucifer walk down the aisle before and after Mass. After Mass, as the priest leaves the Altar, it is also customary to pray for him. (Some make a profound bow instead at these times) Not commonly known and practiced: any time you hear "Father, Son, and Holy Ghost (or "Holy Spirit")" mentioned together; any time you hear the name of Mary; and, during Mass, when the name of the Saint in whose honor the Mass is being celebrated

**Striking of the Breast**
How:	With either a fist or with the tips of the fingers, held close together, strike your chest over the heart to express regret and sorrow 2
When:	At the Mass, formally: at each "mea culpa" during the Confiteor; at the Nobis Quoque Peccatoribus (priest); three times during the Agnus Dei; and three times during the Domine, Non Sum Dignus Informally: at the "forgive us our trespasses" ("dimitte nobis debita nostra") in the "Our Father"; any time to express penitence or remorse inside or outside of the Liturgy

**Bow at the waist (or "profound bow")**
How:	Bow at the waist in the manner of the Japanese (about 30o forward)
When:	At the Aspérges at Mass when the priest sprinkles the congregation with holy water When the Altar boy incenses the congregation during the Mass Cross yourself and make a profound bow when the priest and Crucifer walk down the aisle before and after Mass. After Mass, as the priest leaves the Altar, it is also customary to pray for him. (Some simply bow the head instead of making a profound bow at these times) when greeting a hierarch who doesn't have jurisdiction over you (e.g., the Bishop of a diocese other than one in which you live). As you bow, kiss the hierarch's ring. This bow and ring-kissing are only done if the Pope is not present.

**Genuflection on Left Knee**
How:	Kneel on your left knee for a moment, bringing the left knee all the way to the floor and keeping the back straight. Hold for a moment, then stand. (The word is pronounced "jen-you-flek'-shun")
When:	When greeting or leaving the Pope or other hierarchs with the rank of Bishop or above and who have jurisdiction over you (only when the Pope is not present) -- e.g., to the Bishop or Archbishop of your diocese, not of a neighboring diocese. During the left-knee genuflection, a kiss is given to the hierarch's ring. Then stand.

**Genuflection on Right Knee**
How:	Looking at what you are genuflecting toward, kneel on your right knee for a moment in the manner of a man proposing to a woman, bringing the right knee all the way to the floor, close to the heel of the left foot, keeping the back and neck erect. Hold for a moment, then stand.
When:	Genuflect toward the Tabernacle where the Blessed Sacrament is reserved, and each time you pass in front of it (except when you're in procession, such as standing in line for Communion, or returning to your seat afterward). While this should, on one level, be a matter of habit, it shouldn't be done thoughtlessly. Remind yourself when genuflecting toward the Tabernacle that you are kneeling before God. Praying mentally, "My Lord and My God" is a good habit to get into while genuflecting on the right knee. If the Tabernacle is not on the Altar, genuflect toward the Altar and the Altar Crucifix. Before a relic of the True Cross when it is exposed for public adoration. On Good Friday to Holy Saturday, after the ceremony of the Adoration of the Cross, genuflect when passing in front of the exposed Crucifix on the Altar.

**Kneeling (Double Genuflection)**
How:	Kneel on both knees
When:	any time the Blessed Sacrament is exposed, to show adoration and humility many times during the Mass: during the Prayers at the Foot of the Altar, after the Sanctus, after the Angus Dei, at the altar rail, and at the Last Blessing during Confession, inside or, in emergencies, outside of the Confessional when receiving a priestly blessing, inside or outside of the Liturgy. If you are unable for some reason to kneel, then bow your head. during private prayer (see St. Dominic's "Fourth Way"" of prayer)

**Prostration**
How:	Keeping your legs together, drop to your knees and then lie down flat on the floor on your face, crossing your hands underneath your forehead forming a "pillow" on which to rest your forehead
When:	Prostrations, which signify total humility and penance, are made during the Rite of Ordination, during rites of religious profession (i.e., entry into religious orders), as penance in religious orders, and by anyone during private prayer before a Crucifix or the Blessed Sacrament. It is also occasionally made by adults, at the priest's invitation, before the Profession of Faith in the solemn Rite of Baptism. (See St. Dominic's "Second Way" of prayer)

**Kisses**
How:	To paraphrase Lauren Bacall in "To Have and Have Not," you know how to kiss, don't you? You just put your lips together.. but don't blow.
When:	Kissing Crucifixes and Icons (2-D or 3-D): In icons that depict more than one person, kiss first Our Lord (His Feet, Hem of His garment, or hands), then Our Lady (her hands or veil), then the the angels and Saints. To reverence a Crucifix or icon that you can't reach too well with your lips, kiss your fingers and then touch where you would kiss. Kissing rings of hierarchs: see above under "Genuflection on Left Knee" Kissing a priest's hands: the priest's hands may be kissed when greeting or leaving him because they alone are able to confect the Holy Eucharist. They are also kissed on Palm Sunday when receiving a palm (which is also kissed). During the Mass, the priest's hands are kissed by the acolytes/altar boys.

**Orans**
How:	Raise arms either at your sides and with hands up to shoulder height, or raise arms up over your head as a child would when wanting his father to pick him up
When:	Priests perform this gesture (the first method mentioned) during the Mass. Laymen sometimes adopt this position during private prayer. It should not be used by laymen at the Mass. (See St. Dominic's "Seventh Way" of prayer) 3

For more information on when to kneel, etc., during Mass, see the Order of the Mass page. For an interesting work that shows how St. Dominic used posture in prayer, see "The Nine Ways of Prayer of St. Dominic."

Also, see the special page on the Sign of the Cross which will teach you about the different Signs of the Cross and when, where, and how they are made.

Footnotes:
1 The custom of bowing the head at the mention of His Name was formally written into law at the Second Council of Lyons, A.D. 1274, convened by Pope Gregory X: "Those who assemble in church should extol with an act of special reverence that Name which is above every Name, than which no other under Heaven has been given to people, in which believers must be saved, the Name, that is, of Jesus Christ, Who will save His people from their sins. Each should fulfil in himself that which is written for all, that at the Name of Jesus every knee should bow; whenever that glorious Name is recalled, especially during the sacred Mysteries of the Mass, everyone should bow the knees of his heart, which he can do even by a bow of his head."

2 The Catholic Encyclopedia cites St. Augustine (A.D. 354-430) as saying in his Sermo de verbis Domini, "No sooner have you heard the word 'Confiteor' than you strike your breast. What does this mean except that you wish to bring to light what is concealed in the breast, and by this act to cleanse your hidden sins?"

It also cites St. Jerome (ca. A.D. 340-420) as saying in Ezechiel, c. xviii, "We strike our breast because the breast is the seat of evil thoughts: we wish to dispel these thoughts, we wish to purify our hearts."

3 The orans position is frequently depicted in the art of the Catacombs where figures praying in this manner represented departed souls praying for the soul of the one whose tomb the figures adorn. The Catholic Encyclopedia says, "Numerous Biblical figures, for instance, depicted in the catacombs—Noah, Abraham, Isaac, the Three Children in the Fiery Furnace, Daniel in the lions' den—are pictured asking the Lord to deliver the soul of the person on whose tombs they are depicted as He once delivered the particular personage represented." It goes on to say that in addition to the Biblical Orans figures, there are idealized figures in that "ancient attitude of prayer" which symbolize the soul of the entombed one in heaven, praying for its friends on earth. "This symbolic meaning accounts for the fact that the great majority of the figures are female, even when depicted on the tombs of men."

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